Lately, I have been hearing negative stories about people mistreating each other. Why? The irony of this whole activity is that people forget that life is not permanent, but temporary. Is it necessary to be rude to some one and then regret it later?
Self-control and discipline are key here. People need to learn or practice in self-controlling and self-disciplining themselves. Society doesn't make it any easier because of its heavily pro-stance on instant gratification. Quick fixes and impulses are not the way to live a happy and well-balanced life with our fellow humans. Sometimes, the old fashion is the best way.
Start one step at a time. Become consciously aware of your thoughts and actions. Do it.
Showing posts with label humbleness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label humbleness. Show all posts
Monday, August 10, 2009
Friday, April 10, 2009
Humbling Experience
I meant to write this post yesterday, but the day went by quickly.
Yesterday, I had the privilege and honor to help deliver 300 pounds of food and household items to a family in need in my area. One of my friends who was helping told us not to expect emotions or feelings from the family for a variety of reasons.
When we arrived at the home, it seemed like a sad home. A home that was in need of desperate repair. The homeowner, a father on leave from the U.S. Reserves, opened the door and smiled to greet us. Although his eyes looked sad, he managed a smile and a warm welcome. Three friends, the homeowner and I carried the boxes and bags of donated items.
After we about 15 minutes, we were done. He invited us to meet his wife who is recovering and slowly gaining back movement in her body. She was paralyzed and is making a miraculous recovery through their strong belief in their religious faith. Her husband has been unemployed since he came back from the U.S. Reserves to take care of his wife, 24 hours/7 days per week. They have five children, two of them on disability. The wife was working before she came down with an infection, leaving her temporarily paralyzed.
We chitchatted with the family for about 20 more minutes. Then we left. Since I left their home, I have been thinking about them and how we can help them some more. I do know that a local school is having a golf tournament on the family's behalf to help pay for medical bills.
I have been on a "Happy High". I was happy all day yesterday and even today. I haven't felt like that in a very long time.
If you are interested in helping this family, do leave a comment with your email address, and I will get back to you.
Yesterday, I had the privilege and honor to help deliver 300 pounds of food and household items to a family in need in my area. One of my friends who was helping told us not to expect emotions or feelings from the family for a variety of reasons.
When we arrived at the home, it seemed like a sad home. A home that was in need of desperate repair. The homeowner, a father on leave from the U.S. Reserves, opened the door and smiled to greet us. Although his eyes looked sad, he managed a smile and a warm welcome. Three friends, the homeowner and I carried the boxes and bags of donated items.
After we about 15 minutes, we were done. He invited us to meet his wife who is recovering and slowly gaining back movement in her body. She was paralyzed and is making a miraculous recovery through their strong belief in their religious faith. Her husband has been unemployed since he came back from the U.S. Reserves to take care of his wife, 24 hours/7 days per week. They have five children, two of them on disability. The wife was working before she came down with an infection, leaving her temporarily paralyzed.
We chitchatted with the family for about 20 more minutes. Then we left. Since I left their home, I have been thinking about them and how we can help them some more. I do know that a local school is having a golf tournament on the family's behalf to help pay for medical bills.
I have been on a "Happy High". I was happy all day yesterday and even today. I haven't felt like that in a very long time.
If you are interested in helping this family, do leave a comment with your email address, and I will get back to you.
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
Offer to help
Today, I helped a person during a time of need. No one asked me to. I just did it. I felt it was my obligation for humanity. I felt humbled by this experience.
All I can say is if you have the chance to help someone without getting any type of compensation--do it. Be a good Samaritan, do a random act of kindness.
Kindess will spread.
All I can say is if you have the chance to help someone without getting any type of compensation--do it. Be a good Samaritan, do a random act of kindness.
Kindess will spread.
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